Why is this so hard?
No one denies that marriage can be hard at times. Couples counseling is meant to enrich your marriage and deal with hard things like:
Breaking out of patterns that keep you stuck in relational frustration.
Learning to listen to each other with understanding and empathy.
Negotiating problems in ways that lead to understanding and resolution.
Recovering from negative emotional arguments without the silent treatment or escalating aggression.
Developing the safety needed to be intimate with each other in mutually satisfying ways.
Rebuilding trust after an affair or other betrayals.
Learning how to handle the daily challenges of parenting together.
If you would like help with your relationship I would be happy to work on this with you.